I remember several years ago when a high profile politicians was exposed for having an affair (hardly ever happens right? (sarcasm). They were interviewing men about what they thought of the scandal.
What surprised me was the number of men who stated that what was bad about the scandal was the fact that he had an affair with the wife/girlfriend of a friend. Otherwise, it would not have been that big of a deal! My thought was WTF?!!!
What these men were saying was as long as he did not know the guy in question, sleeping with and having sex with another man's wife/girlfriend/partner etc... was acceptable! As a man, it made me think hard about the value system of many of my fellow males! SAD!